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		<title>By: Amber</title>
		<link>http://epicself.com/be/sex-drugs-and-rock-and-roll-at-24/#comment-4524</link>
		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 03:26:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Melissa! It was wonderful to meet you at the Clear Cafe as well. I hear you on the culture shock. I only spent two weeks in Bali and had major culture shock when I landed in the states. Denver is a health focused community though with a lot of resources. Go to the meet up groups you joined and meet awesome people. If all else fails you can just go back to paradise :D. I&#039;m planning to go back at least once per year to get my fix. I know why people go and never leave. Such a magical place! Know that I am always here for you and will be connecting with raw food meet ups all over the country. The internet has allowed us all the ability to connect. You can always hop into one of my virtual hangouts on google + too! I&#039;m scheduling them at least twice per week now. Rock on and stay strong!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melissa! It was wonderful to meet you at the Clear Cafe as well. I hear you on the culture shock. I only spent two weeks in Bali and had major culture shock when I landed in the states. Denver is a health focused community though with a lot of resources. Go to the meet up groups you joined and meet awesome people. If all else fails you can just go back to paradise <img src='http://epicself.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> . I&#8217;m planning to go back at least once per year to get my fix. I know why people go and never leave. Such a magical place! Know that I am always here for you and will be connecting with raw food meet ups all over the country. The internet has allowed us all the ability to connect. You can always hop into one of my virtual hangouts on google + too! I&#8217;m scheduling them at least twice per week now. Rock on and stay strong!</p>
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		<title>By: melissa</title>
		<link>http://epicself.com/be/sex-drugs-and-rock-and-roll-at-24/#comment-4523</link>
		<dc:creator>melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2012 13:49:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thank you for sharing, i am so glad that i met you and that i have your blog as a support.  i was just introduced to the concious world recently, its been almost 2 months that ive been cleansing and detoxing, and i think i have 7 years to go!  i partied and thought it was normal also, but for 15 years. wow, what a long time!  i have been here iin asia for 4 months now, and the last 2 have almost 100% vegan and raw, and now i am scared to go back home b/c i have no support there, yet.  i joined 2 raw meet up groups i found where i live in denver, so im excited to meet new people like you did.  i have been watching so many documentaries and learning a lot from the support i have here in bali.  i was supposed to fly out yesterday, but got too nervous to leave this healthy utopia here in ubud and face my reality at home. i just wasnt ready yet! how am i going to go from drinking at least 4 coconuts a day and being surrounded by all this AMAZING raw food and people, to no coconuts and no support! i know ill find someone, but just wasnt ready.  i think im going to experience quite the culture shock going back, (the rampant SADs ill be surrounded by) which is quite ironic-usually people get culture shock when they are entering asia or a foreign place! not just the diet, but the partying. it really is crazy how rampant it is world wide, and everyone thinks it is normal.  i thought it was too.  i am grateful that have gain conciousness and see the light though, and you are one of the first people to talk to me about transitioning so thank you amber! i hope our paths meet someday soon.
namaste, melissa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thank you for sharing, i am so glad that i met you and that i have your blog as a support.  i was just introduced to the concious world recently, its been almost 2 months that ive been cleansing and detoxing, and i think i have 7 years to go!  i partied and thought it was normal also, but for 15 years. wow, what a long time!  i have been here iin asia for 4 months now, and the last 2 have almost 100% vegan and raw, and now i am scared to go back home b/c i have no support there, yet.  i joined 2 raw meet up groups i found where i live in denver, so im excited to meet new people like you did.  i have been watching so many documentaries and learning a lot from the support i have here in bali.  i was supposed to fly out yesterday, but got too nervous to leave this healthy utopia here in ubud and face my reality at home. i just wasnt ready yet! how am i going to go from drinking at least 4 coconuts a day and being surrounded by all this AMAZING raw food and people, to no coconuts and no support! i know ill find someone, but just wasnt ready.  i think im going to experience quite the culture shock going back, (the rampant SADs ill be surrounded by) which is quite ironic-usually people get culture shock when they are entering asia or a foreign place! not just the diet, but the partying. it really is crazy how rampant it is world wide, and everyone thinks it is normal.  i thought it was too.  i am grateful that have gain conciousness and see the light though, and you are one of the first people to talk to me about transitioning so thank you amber! i hope our paths meet someday soon.<br />
namaste, melissa</p>
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		<title>By: mikey</title>
		<link>http://epicself.com/be/sex-drugs-and-rock-and-roll-at-24/#comment-4350</link>
		<dc:creator>mikey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 23:40:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When i was a teen i drank and smoked to fit in, even though i never really felt like i fit in. I didnt know any better then, i was misguided and ignorant.  When you finally learn to love yourself,  you realize that the internal peace with in yourself is enough, and connecting to the source brings great joy to ones life.   I like feeling chi and meditating, it feels natural, and there are no hangovers to the healthy way...  I also think its sad seeing people in their late 20s and early 30s doing the same thing i was doing when i was a teen, talk about a stagnant boring life...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When i was a teen i drank and smoked to fit in, even though i never really felt like i fit in. I didnt know any better then, i was misguided and ignorant.  When you finally learn to love yourself,  you realize that the internal peace with in yourself is enough, and connecting to the source brings great joy to ones life.   I like feeling chi and meditating, it feels natural, and there are no hangovers to the healthy way&#8230;  I also think its sad seeing people in their late 20s and early 30s doing the same thing i was doing when i was a teen, talk about a stagnant boring life&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel Lynn</title>
		<link>http://epicself.com/be/sex-drugs-and-rock-and-roll-at-24/#comment-3934</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 16:54:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m only 23 and sometimes I feel so old and lame when I don&#039;t want to go out and do the things that others want to do. Thanks for reminding me that I&#039;m not such an outsider!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m only 23 and sometimes I feel so old and lame when I don&#8217;t want to go out and do the things that others want to do. Thanks for reminding me that I&#8217;m not such an outsider!</p>
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		<title>By: Karl Schreiber-Woods</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karl Schreiber-Woods</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2011 06:11:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amber, cool article.  

What I always think when I see people taking drugs is that everyone needs bliss.  Everyone needs ecstacy.  But there are ways to get blissed out that don&#039;t make you sick and unhappy in the long-run.  Like dance, meditation, nature, and love.  I started drinking heavily at 12, and by 16 I was sick of it.  My senior year of high school I strangely found myself hanging out with Mormons and Muslims (though I was an atheist) because they were sober, and I actually had a great time!  Thankfully there are people (religious and otherwise) living healthy, happy lifestyles all around us.  You just have to look. 

I was walking past some clubs after we parted tonight and I had the idea that it would be awesome if there was a raw/veggie/intoxicant-free club.  There probably is one somewhere.  Have you ever heard of one?  I still have the urge to party, but don&#039;t want to be surrounded by alcohol.  I&#039;ve tried sober clubbing and overall find it boring because talking to drunk people when you&#039;re sober is boring--atleast for me.  Anyways, it was a pleasure meeting you tonight.  It can be hard to meet like-minded people. 

 :)   Karl</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amber, cool article.  </p>
<p>What I always think when I see people taking drugs is that everyone needs bliss.  Everyone needs ecstacy.  But there are ways to get blissed out that don&#8217;t make you sick and unhappy in the long-run.  Like dance, meditation, nature, and love.  I started drinking heavily at 12, and by 16 I was sick of it.  My senior year of high school I strangely found myself hanging out with Mormons and Muslims (though I was an atheist) because they were sober, and I actually had a great time!  Thankfully there are people (religious and otherwise) living healthy, happy lifestyles all around us.  You just have to look. </p>
<p>I was walking past some clubs after we parted tonight and I had the idea that it would be awesome if there was a raw/veggie/intoxicant-free club.  There probably is one somewhere.  Have you ever heard of one?  I still have the urge to party, but don&#8217;t want to be surrounded by alcohol.  I&#8217;ve tried sober clubbing and overall find it boring because talking to drunk people when you&#8217;re sober is boring&#8211;atleast for me.  Anyways, it was a pleasure meeting you tonight.  It can be hard to meet like-minded people. </p>
<p> <img src='http://epicself.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />    Karl</p>
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		<title>By: ah wong</title>
		<link>http://epicself.com/be/sex-drugs-and-rock-and-roll-at-24/#comment-3526</link>
		<dc:creator>ah wong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 02:30:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>After reading I have to write something. What we all feel and experience is suffering. Suffering from wanting to be someone, for not being, for not having, for being, from not getting something to satisfy our inner desires. We use drugs, alcohol and smoking to try to cover up what we are suffering. We don&#039;t even realize that we are suffering, we keep drinking till we vomit blood not knowing why! In Buddhism this is suffering! We need to understand and resolve our problem. We drink trying to stop our mind from suffering,  but we actually create more suffering when we wake up, we are half dead, our body system suffer, our mental system suffer, our job, day, friends and we ended up more suffering! In meditation you can stop drinking. You can stop smoking and you can stop sex. Meditation is a method to rewrite your mental program. Just like writing you computer program. You don&#039;t need to be a monk to learn meditation, you can just learn it. When you get it you will be addicted to it like your rock &amp; roll at 24!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After reading I have to write something. What we all feel and experience is suffering. Suffering from wanting to be someone, for not being, for not having, for being, from not getting something to satisfy our inner desires. We use drugs, alcohol and smoking to try to cover up what we are suffering. We don&#8217;t even realize that we are suffering, we keep drinking till we vomit blood not knowing why! In Buddhism this is suffering! We need to understand and resolve our problem. We drink trying to stop our mind from suffering,  but we actually create more suffering when we wake up, we are half dead, our body system suffer, our mental system suffer, our job, day, friends and we ended up more suffering! In meditation you can stop drinking. You can stop smoking and you can stop sex. Meditation is a method to rewrite your mental program. Just like writing you computer program. You don&#8217;t need to be a monk to learn meditation, you can just learn it. When you get it you will be addicted to it like your rock &amp; roll at 24!</p>
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		<title>By: Spencer</title>
		<link>http://epicself.com/be/sex-drugs-and-rock-and-roll-at-24/#comment-3466</link>
		<dc:creator>Spencer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2011 19:10:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Amber,

I just wanted to take a minute and thank you for your blog, email, and other activities.  You are changing the world, and that rocks.

I have two incredible daughters, ages 15 and 18, and unlike you and me in the past, at their young ages they already seem to get the message from your &quot;Sex, Drugs and Rock and Roll at 24&quot; blog post.  Even so, I passed it on to them yesterday, because it&#039;s a great message and reminder.  My older daughter has already passed it on to a couple people she thought would benefit from it.

So that&#039;s one great small example - an article you wrote in 2009 and probably haven&#039;t thought about this year - is still out there impacting people.  Thanks!

Spencer</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Amber,</p>
<p>I just wanted to take a minute and thank you for your blog, email, and other activities.  You are changing the world, and that rocks.</p>
<p>I have two incredible daughters, ages 15 and 18, and unlike you and me in the past, at their young ages they already seem to get the message from your &#8220;Sex, Drugs and Rock and Roll at 24&#8243; blog post.  Even so, I passed it on to them yesterday, because it&#8217;s a great message and reminder.  My older daughter has already passed it on to a couple people she thought would benefit from it.</p>
<p>So that&#8217;s one great small example &#8211; an article you wrote in 2009 and probably haven&#8217;t thought about this year &#8211; is still out there impacting people.  Thanks!</p>
<p>Spencer</p>
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		<title>By: Amber</title>
		<link>http://epicself.com/be/sex-drugs-and-rock-and-roll-at-24/#comment-3287</link>
		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jan 2011 05:10:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Megan- I deal with the same thing all the time now that I am raw vegan. When you eat light clean food our systems just can&#039;t take the alcohol and stimulants. One or two glasses of wine and I&#039;m under the table! One cup of coffee and I&#039;m jittery all day. The social pressures from our peers and family can be really challenging. I always bring a positive twist to it though! Let people have their issues with you not conforming! You feel amazing while they end up in a sugar, booze induced comma. Who&#039;s happier at the end of the day? 

*When people inquire about me being raw I tell them I eat this way for the planet and for how good it makes me feel. That really makes people think. They want to feel good too!

Look for some new buddies who are into your lifestyle. I have joined a ton of local meet up groups and organizations to put myself around positive like minds. Good luck on your journey and looking forward to connecting more with you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Megan- I deal with the same thing all the time now that I am raw vegan. When you eat light clean food our systems just can&#8217;t take the alcohol and stimulants. One or two glasses of wine and I&#8217;m under the table! One cup of coffee and I&#8217;m jittery all day. The social pressures from our peers and family can be really challenging. I always bring a positive twist to it though! Let people have their issues with you not conforming! You feel amazing while they end up in a sugar, booze induced comma. Who&#8217;s happier at the end of the day? </p>
<p>*When people inquire about me being raw I tell them I eat this way for the planet and for how good it makes me feel. That really makes people think. They want to feel good too!</p>
<p>Look for some new buddies who are into your lifestyle. I have joined a ton of local meet up groups and organizations to put myself around positive like minds. Good luck on your journey and looking forward to connecting more with you.</p>
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		<title>By: Megan</title>
		<link>http://epicself.com/be/sex-drugs-and-rock-and-roll-at-24/#comment-3284</link>
		<dc:creator>Megan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jan 2011 01:37:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Amber for writing such a truthful, inspiring, and informative blog. Lately, I have found myself feeling like a rarity as you put it. I feel like most of my peers reactions to me going vegan, and possibly raw without crutching onto alcohol is threatening to them because they themselves want to fit into that norm or realm of acceptance and watching me state I that I do not want to put those toxins into my body is too  obscure for them. 

Binge drinking is overrated. The toll it takes on your body, especially on one who feeds themselves pure, organic, healthy foods, is never ever worth it. Waking up that next morning to feeling like you were punched in the chest several times is not a good enough reason to throw back those shots at the club so you can let loose with ease on the dance floor. Being drunk or high does not constitute for bravery when meeting people at a club or party, nor does it replace confidence. 

Keep writing Amber, I look forward to your future posts &lt;3 &lt;3 &lt;3</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Amber for writing such a truthful, inspiring, and informative blog. Lately, I have found myself feeling like a rarity as you put it. I feel like most of my peers reactions to me going vegan, and possibly raw without crutching onto alcohol is threatening to them because they themselves want to fit into that norm or realm of acceptance and watching me state I that I do not want to put those toxins into my body is too  obscure for them. </p>
<p>Binge drinking is overrated. The toll it takes on your body, especially on one who feeds themselves pure, organic, healthy foods, is never ever worth it. Waking up that next morning to feeling like you were punched in the chest several times is not a good enough reason to throw back those shots at the club so you can let loose with ease on the dance floor. Being drunk or high does not constitute for bravery when meeting people at a club or party, nor does it replace confidence. </p>
<p>Keep writing Amber, I look forward to your future posts &lt;3 &lt;3 &lt;3</p>
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		<title>By: Vanessa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vanessa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2010 17:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m 24 and feel pretty disconnected from many of the people in my age range as well. I don&#039;t drink much if ever. Mostly just wine and for me it&#039;s because I just don&#039;t like the taste of alcohol lol I think I&#039;m quite lucky. But it&#039;s hard to see people I care about binge drink all the time. I don&#039;t think there is anything wrong with drinking... until it&#039;s taken too far as you said. Usually when people get sloshed A LOT they&#039;re usually trying to escape something, no? 

I wish I could do more for those people but you&#039;re right, all you can do is be an example. Btw, it really freaks me out that anyone would want to grow up and be like Paris Hilton or anyone else living off of easy money. Where&#039;s the fun in that! :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m 24 and feel pretty disconnected from many of the people in my age range as well. I don&#8217;t drink much if ever. Mostly just wine and for me it&#8217;s because I just don&#8217;t like the taste of alcohol lol I think I&#8217;m quite lucky. But it&#8217;s hard to see people I care about binge drink all the time. I don&#8217;t think there is anything wrong with drinking&#8230; until it&#8217;s taken too far as you said. Usually when people get sloshed A LOT they&#8217;re usually trying to escape something, no? </p>
<p>I wish I could do more for those people but you&#8217;re right, all you can do is be an example. Btw, it really freaks me out that anyone would want to grow up and be like Paris Hilton or anyone else living off of easy money. Where&#8217;s the fun in that! <img src='http://epicself.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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