Years ago I dreamed of meeting a partner who I could share my globe-trotting, unconventional lifestyle with.

At the time, I was SO happy doing my own thing as a single female entrepreneur.

I was building my unique dream in the tropics and achieving many of the things I had set out to do in business.

I had found my tribe of soul sisters in the jungle, and I felt more fulfilled in all areas of my life than ever before.

Everything was going great, and I was so pumped on life! I was excited to wake up every day and pursue my passions.

And yet, I still longed for that one person I could share this beautiful creation with.

Not out of need or desperation, but out of wanting to share the beauty with someone who would enjoy the ride as much as me.

I had some doubts about meeting this “dream guy” while living in a small beach town in the middle of Central America. Still, I knew if I kept living on purpose and doing what lit my heart up, eventually, the universe would align.

And it did in the most magical of ways. It still gives me chills just thinking about the synchronicities that had to unfold for us to find each other. The odds of us meeting were seriously abysmal! And yet, nature always finds a way.

Moral of the story:

Keep doing you. Stay true to what lights your heart up. Become the best version of you and you will attract a partner who can meet you there.

Don’t give up your dreams and shapeshift to fit into what you think is your dream guy’s ideal box.

Being uniquely you is the greatest gift you can give your partner and the world.

Your unique perspective and voice matters and is important for both of you to grow into the highest versions of yourselves.

When you lose yourself within a relationship, you’ve lost the very thing your partner loves most.


Comment below and let me know how you plan to remain true to yourself!


Lots of Love & Pura Vida!

Amber Sears
Online Coaching, Retreats, & Teacher Trainings