To all the women who don’t feel seen, valued, appreciated, respected, and loved… I see you and value you. I honor your heart, your dreams, your strength, your brilliance, and your voice.

Your value and worth are more than you may ever know. I see it. I see your radiance and massive potential. And I believe in your soul’s unique calling.

I also know how it feels to be silenced, manipulated, controlled, disrespected, underpaid, and invisible to those I want respect from most.

I know what it’s like to walk into a room and be instantly judged as arm candy who isn’t worth knowing. Like an object.

I know because I’ve experienced it.

People have told me, “Do me a favor and just stand there and look pretty.”

Or my favorite scenario happens when I’m with JP. I’ll be standing with him, and the people clamoring for a photo op with him don’t even see me as a human who is also worth acknowledging. People have literally pushed me out of the way for a photo.

“So you are JP’s wife? That’s cool.” End of conversation.

I know how it feels to not be seen or respected for who I am. AND I know how it feels to be deeply honored like a queen.

My point is that external judgments have nothing to do with your actual worth.

Only YOU get to decide your worth and your value.

Only YOU decide how you will and won’t tolerate being treated by those around you.

And only YOU decide that your dreams are worth pursuing and your voice matters.

No one can take those things from you unless you allow them.

STOP giving your power away.

Trust what your heart beats for. Trust your inherent strength and resilience. And trust that the more you hold your own worth and love yourself, the more others will do the same.

You feel me? Does this resonate with you? If so, let me know in the comments below!


Love & Light,

Amber Sears – Online Coaching, Retreats, & Trainings